CanDating Actually Be Fun?

Can Dating Actually Be Fun?

“Why is it so hard?” These words are on the lips of those who long for a committed relationship and yet they are feeling frustration on the other end. Often there’s a little voice inside that is sabotaging all the … Continue reading

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Setting realistic dating expectations

Setting Realistic Dating Expectations

Setting Realistic Dating Expectations The reason why many people become frustrated with dating and long term relationships is because of conflicting ideals and expectations. For example, a woman might expect a man to lead, but complains when his pace doesn’t … Continue reading

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setting pace in a new relationship

Setting the Pace in a New Relationship

Have you ever heard the saying “Men are the gas and women are the brakes?” This is never more true than the man who comes on very strong in the beginning. He lavishes attention on the woman, wining and dining … Continue reading

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you're in control of your destiny

You’re in Control of Your Destiny

You’re in Control of Your Destiny Does any of this sound familiar? Married (check) Divorced (check) Serial dater (check) Several short lived relationships (check) A significant relationship (check) A big break up (check) Back out there dating (check) As you can … Continue reading

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should men always pay for the date

Should Men Always Pay For the Date?

In my parents’ day it was a given that the guy always picked up the tab and that has been the traditional expectation over the years. But are things different now? Let’s say a woman makes $175,000 a year and … Continue reading

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destination addiction

Understanding Destination Addiction

Have you ever heard of destination addiction? It’s a repetitive habit of constantly wondering about what’s next and around the corner instead of learning to take each moment as it comes. Consider this scenario…You’re in an exclusive committed relationship and … Continue reading

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How To Attract Positive People Into Your Life

  How to Attract Positive People Into Your Life Most people who come to me for coaching tend to have one thing in common… they focus more on what they don’t want, instead of what they do want. “I don’t … Continue reading

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Endings and New Beginnings

Endings and New Beginnings

As many of you know, I’m not a fan of long distance relationships. One big reason is because one of my primary love languages is physical time together. Some may consider this a limiting belief and that could be very … Continue reading

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Why Men Lose Interest

Why Men Lose Interest

There’s an old saying: Women marry men in hopes that they will change while men marry women hoping they don’t change. Speaking as a man, this feels like such a truism and this may answer a lot of questions as … Continue reading

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When the First Date Goes Wrong

When the First Date Goes Wrong You’re on a first date and things are not going well. As a matter of fact within 20 minutes you feel like vomiting (or just running out of the room.) For whatever reason, you … Continue reading

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