Comments for UnderstandMenNOW.com http://understandmennow.com Relationship Coaching for Women Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:24:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Men Don’t Fear Commitment, Men Fear Making the Wrong Choice… by C http://understandmennow.com/relationships/men-dont-fear-commitment-men-fear-making-the-wrong-choice//comment-page-1#comment-428 C Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:24:52 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=2215#comment-428 WOW this totaly makes sense to me and I am having an aha moment. Just walked away from a guy after dating over a year. He didnt have time to get me a B-day card or anything for that matter and he told me he would make it up to me...after 2 weeks he never did and the fun went buh bye because I was hurting so much I shut down and shut him out. We talked 66 weeks later in one breath he says I care about you more than I let on and in another breath he see obsticals...we live 50 miles apart he cares for his elderly parents and I have children. He even said he got scared and pushed me away...anyway thanks for the AHA moment.... WOW this totaly makes sense to me and I am having an aha moment. Just walked away from a guy after dating over a year. He didnt have time to get me a B-day card or anything for that matter and he told me he would make it up to me…after 2 weeks he never did and the fun went buh bye because I was hurting so much I shut down and shut him out. We talked 66 weeks later in one breath he says I care about you more than I let on and in another breath he see obsticals…we live 50 miles apart he cares for his elderly parents and I have children. He even said he got scared and pushed me away…anyway thanks for the AHA moment….

]]> Comment on Men Don’t Fear Commitment, Men Fear Making the Wrong Choice… by GinaMaria http://understandmennow.com/relationships/men-dont-fear-commitment-men-fear-making-the-wrong-choice//comment-page-1#comment-427 GinaMaria Thu, 09 Feb 2012 23:25:04 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=2215#comment-427 Once again, imho, you hit it square ON!! And, if the essentials are there. the 5Cs, how could we not want to make him feel safe and give him that deep sense of home? When the stars align, it is SOOOO easy to spot and SOOOO FUN to watch that develop and blossom. Neither party is worried, afraid, doubting, or any of those nagging conflicted feelings. Both are comfy, self-assured, confident and having a blast!! I've learned sooo much from you and your sweetie!! THANKS!!! Once again, imho, you hit it square ON!! And, if the essentials are there. the 5Cs, how could we not want to make him feel safe and give him that deep sense of home? When the stars align, it is SOOOO easy to spot and SOOOO FUN to watch that develop and blossom. Neither party is worried, afraid, doubting, or any of those nagging conflicted feelings. Both are comfy, self-assured, confident and having a blast!!

I’ve learned sooo much from you and your sweetie!!

THANKS!!!

]]> Comment on How to be the “lady” every gentleman wants by HappySexyLife Embrace Your Feminine Power | HappySexyLife.com http://understandmennow.com/mindset/how-to-be-the-lady-every-relationship-ready-man-wants//comment-page-1#comment-426 HappySexyLife Embrace Your Feminine Power | HappySexyLife.com Mon, 06 Feb 2012 23:57:24 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=2132#comment-426 [...] As promised, here’s the link to Jonathon’s article: http://understandmennow.com/mindset/how-to-be-the-lady-every-relationship-ready-man-wants [...] [...] As promised, here’s the link to Jonathon’s article: http://understandmennow.com/mindset/how-to-be-the-lady-every-relationship-ready-man-wants [...]

]]> Comment on How to be the “lady” every gentleman wants by More on Embracing Feminine Power « How to be Happy Coach http://understandmennow.com/mindset/how-to-be-the-lady-every-relationship-ready-man-wants//comment-page-1#comment-425 More on Embracing Feminine Power « How to be Happy Coach Mon, 06 Feb 2012 23:31:42 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=2132#comment-425 [...] As promised, here’s the link to Jonathon’s article: http://understandmennow.com/mindset/how-to-be-the-lady-every-relationship-ready-man-wants [...] [...] As promised, here’s the link to Jonathon’s article: http://understandmennow.com/mindset/how-to-be-the-lady-every-relationship-ready-man-wants [...]

]]> Comment on The Awakened Man and His Hero’s Journey by Jonathon Aslay http://understandmennow.com/relationships/heros-journey//comment-page-1#comment-424 Jonathon Aslay Fri, 03 Feb 2012 14:56:57 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=1691#comment-424 Dear Lyla, As a special bonus for ordering my eCourse, I offer a one hour audio on the Hero's Journey Click here http://understandmennow.com/how-men-think Dear Lyla, As a special bonus for ordering my eCourse, I offer a one hour audio on the Hero’s Journey Click here http://understandmennow.com/how-men-think

]]> Comment on The Awakened Man and His Hero’s Journey by Lyla http://understandmennow.com/relationships/heros-journey//comment-page-1#comment-423 Lyla Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:25:14 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=1691#comment-423 Do you have a link to this Hero's Journey, Jonathon? I don't know what it is. Do you have a link to this Hero’s Journey, Jonathon? I don’t know what it is.

]]> Comment on How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship? by Marla http://understandmennow.com/relationships/is-he-ready-for-commitment//comment-page-1#comment-422 Marla Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:30:39 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=1959#comment-422 Excellent Jonathon! I can see clearly now - the window is not so fogged up! And your comment "LOVE PIE, never give more pie than what he gives to YOU." Wow, how many times does that happen? So many behaviors to be aware to win in this game of love. My gosh, no wonder there are so many hurting hearts. Thanks for helping heal them xoxo Excellent Jonathon! I can see clearly now – the window is not so fogged up! And your comment “LOVE PIE, never give more pie than what he gives to YOU.” Wow, how many times does that happen? So many behaviors to be aware to win in this game of love.
My gosh, no wonder there are so many hurting hearts. Thanks for helping heal them xoxo

]]> Comment on How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship? by Susye http://understandmennow.com/relationships/is-he-ready-for-commitment//comment-page-1#comment-421 Susye Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:19:27 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=1959#comment-421 Never heard about the Love pie, and reading your blog I'm starting to despair a bit about men in general. It sounds like game playing, having an elaborate scheme to catch this poor dumb unsuspecting bloke just so he can get his rocks off and chase me? Can't he just go and shoot/kill something and put it on his wall and come back to me when he is done? However in saying that, I love the chase as well, and sometimes I wish I had been born a bloke as it would have been easier not to be caught up in emotion/ emotional thinking all the time and just get on with the hunting... If you want something, go and get it right? : D Never heard about the Love pie, and reading your blog I’m starting to despair a bit about men in general. It sounds like game playing, having an elaborate scheme to catch this poor dumb unsuspecting bloke just so he can get his rocks off and chase me?
Can’t he just go and shoot/kill something and put it on his wall and come back to me when he is done?

However in saying that, I love the chase as well, and sometimes I wish I had been born a bloke as it would have been easier not to be caught up in emotion/ emotional thinking all the time and just get on with the hunting…
If you want something, go and get it right? : D

]]> Comment on How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship? by GinaMaria http://understandmennow.com/relationships/is-he-ready-for-commitment//comment-page-1#comment-420 GinaMaria Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:08:48 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=1959#comment-420 Let him chase and also, watch him light up like a giant Christmas tree when he catches you. Guys love the chase and love it even more when they know, see, hear, feel that there really is nowhere you'd rather be than right there, with them!!! ; D Thanks Jonathon, you've taught me well and now, I'm reaping my rewards! Let him chase and also, watch him light up like a giant Christmas tree when he catches you. Guys love the chase and love it even more when they know, see, hear, feel that there really is nowhere you’d rather be than right there, with them!!! ; D Thanks Jonathon, you’ve taught me well and now, I’m reaping my rewards!

]]> Comment on Alpha women and relationship ready men by Jonathon http://understandmennow.com/relationships/what-kind-of-relationship-ready-man-is-right-for-you//comment-page-1#comment-418 Jonathon Wed, 25 Jan 2012 02:29:49 +0000 http://understandmennow.com/?p=2127#comment-418 Renee, The dance between the masculine and the feminine shifts when we have extremes such as Alpha personalities. The shear nature of the Alpha is to be in-charge if a woman is truly in that energy, don't you think the polarity would be to choose a beta male? Renee,

The dance between the masculine and the feminine shifts when we have extremes such as Alpha personalities. The shear nature of the Alpha is to be in-charge if a woman is truly in that energy, don’t you think the polarity would be to choose a beta male?

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