Are You Playing the Field, or Just Playing Games? Here’s something that comes up a lot in my coaching sessions: Is it okay to date more than one guy at a time? I say it depends on how you define dating, and where you are in the dating cycle. There is a huge difference between [...]
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Why Some Men Sabotage Their Relationships Right From The Beginning?
In the past 50 years wouldn’t you say there’s been a shift in the dynamics of what a relationship looks like? In the old days, “man find woman” “man date woman” “man marry woman” “woman does what man says” (said like a caveman). So, what has changed in the past 50 years? Do you know [...]
How Relationship Ready Men Respond to Competition
I’m all for circular dating, or the practice of dating multiple people at a time to avoid too much into something until you know where you stand relationship-wise. But do they all really need to know how many other people you are also dating? I was recently asked by a woman how a man would [...]
5 Things Not to Get Your Man for Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is almost upon us, and if you are reading this, you may or may not have gotten a Valentine’s Day gift for that special man in your life. If you HAVEN’T already gotten a Valentine’s Day gift for your man yet, then you may want to check out my recent TV debut for [...]
Men Don’t Fear Commitment, Men Fear Making the Wrong Choice…
Men don’t really fear commitment as some of us might have you believe. What we men really fear is making the wrong choice… In a few hours, I am going to be interviewed on live television for a Valentine’s Day Special on an ABC Talk-show They say that public speaking ranks as one of the [...]
How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship?
How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship? It’s the million dollar question if a committed relationship is what you are after. Before I get into the meat of this topic, let’s first take a look at how most dating scenarios work out these days. Say you meet someone from [...]
Does Your Man Make You Happy
Have you ever heard this? “How can you be happy in relationship, if you are not happy by yourself” Look, I get it…. but let me just say this: “I am SO much happier these days being in an amazing delicious relationship, being with a partner who I can just be relaxed (and especially vulnerable).” [...]
The Awakened Man and His Hero’s Journey
If you have even been in a relationship for any length of time you would agree with me that there can be many areas of conflict. One of the most frequent fields of concern is the lack of intimacy shared between a man and a woman. Unfortunately women have been conditioned to not even think [...]
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