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How Do You Measure Value?

How Do You Measure Value? As many of you have noticed, lately I’ve been discussing the notion that it’s okay for a woman to initiate a date or even pay for a date in the early stages (the first 10 … Continue reading

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How to Develop a New Approach to Midlife Dating

From what I’ve seen, many newly divorced midlife singles date with an intent to make sure that they don’t repeat the past. Men often retreat into play, fun, no attachment and no desire for long term commitment while women often … Continue reading

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Should Women Consider Asking Men Out?

Should women consider asking men out on dates? According to a new poll by Lavalife, 95 percent of men think it’s attractive and acceptable when a woman asks them out. Clearly, these men are not intimidated by a strong woman; … Continue reading

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Over 45 and Never Married…What’s the Deal?

Over 45 and Never Married..What’s the Deal? Let’s face it, there is a strong bias against on both sides of the gender spectrum for those midlife daters who are over 45 but have never been married. A woman may think the … Continue reading

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Making the Most of Midlife Dating

Making the Most of Midlife Dating Before I became a Midlife Dating Coach, I use to love the dating process because I used to say “yes” to almost everybody, even when it went against my intuition. Truthfully, I was just … Continue reading

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When He Doesn’t Believe In Labels

When He Doesn’t Believe In Labels You’ve been dating a guy for 2 months, you’re together every weekend for the entire weekend. You’ve become intimate, but haven’t had the exclusivity talk (but it seems he’s only seeing you.) You talk … Continue reading

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CanDating Actually Be Fun?

Can Dating Actually Be Fun?

“Why is it so hard?” These words are on the lips of those who long for a committed relationship and yet they are feeling frustration on the other end. Often there’s a little voice inside that is sabotaging all the … Continue reading

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Setting Realistic Dating Expectations

Setting Realistic Dating Expectations The reason why many people become frustrated with dating and long term relationships is because of conflicting ideals and expectations. For example, a woman might expect a man to lead, but complains when his pace doesn’t … Continue reading

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You’re in Control of Your Destiny

You’re in Control of Your Destiny Does any of this sound familiar? Married (check) Divorced (check) Serial dater (check) Several short lived relationships (check) A significant relationship (check) A big break up (check) Back out there dating (check) As you can … Continue reading

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Understanding Destination Addiction

Have you ever heard of destination addiction? It’s a repetitive habit of constantly wondering about what’s next and around the corner instead of learning to take each moment as it comes. Consider this scenario…You’re in an exclusive committed relationship and … Continue reading

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