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Let Go of Who You’re Supposed to Be to Discover Who You Are

Let Go of Who You’re Supposed to Be to Discover Who You Are Growing up, I was imprinted with the following by society and my family: go to school, get a job, get married, buy a house, and have kids. … Continue reading

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View Love as an Adventure

View Love as an Adventure Sunday night, I was watching one of my favorite movies, “To Catch a Thief,” with Cary Grant and Grace Kelly (damn she was gorgeous). After only two dates (well they weren’t really dates, more like … Continue reading

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Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex?

Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex? Each morning, I walk along the beach to connect with nature, to move my body, to ask for what I want and to express gratitude. Every day, I find something or … Continue reading

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Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online

Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online There’s an old saying along the lines of “how you do one thing is how you do everything.” I have found that to be true when it comes to online … Continue reading

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If I Can Rise from the Ashes, So Can You

If I Can Rise from the Ashes, So Can You Many folks give up on love and romance because they’ve been hurt, and they do nothing but focus on the past and their sadness and pain. I can relate to … Continue reading

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Feel Good about Yourself and the Guys Will Come Running

Feel Good about Yourself and the Guys Will Come Running What is the sexiest thing about women? Nope, not big breasts or a Kim Kardashian-type rear end. Nope, not hair down to the waist or full red lips. (Sure, we … Continue reading

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What Does It Mean to Settle?

What Does It Mean to Settle? Have you ever been in a relationship where you didn’t speak up and tell your man what you wanted and needed? Maybe you thought if you acted the way you wanted to be treated, … Continue reading

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If You Love Me, You’ll Change

If You Love Me, You’ll Change When I coach women, I hear this more often than I’d like… and men are no stranger to saying it. “If you love me, you’ll change.” Have you ever said or thought that? I … Continue reading

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Don’t Put Him on a Pedestal

Don’t Put Him on a Pedestal When you place someone else’s happiness above your own needs, wants, or desires, you’ve effectively put that person on a pedestal. You’re saying that he or she is more important than you are. Because … Continue reading

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Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious

Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious Over the years, I’ve noticed that most people date with an intent for connection or completion, which is why so many struggle in the early stages. They have an agenda for dating … Continue reading

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