Men don’t really fear commitment as some of us might have you believe. What we men really fear is making the wrong choice… In a few hours, I am going to be interviewed on live television for a Valentine’s Day Special on an ABC Talk-show They say that public speaking ranks as one of the [...]
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Do the skeletons in your closet work for you for against you?
Will the skeletons in your closet turn him off? Not necessarily… We all have a few skeletons lying somewhere in our closets in the form of emotional baggage–an iconic image that represents the weight of all the painful memories we carry on our shoulders everywhere we go. These skeletons come in all shapes and all [...]
How to be the “lady” every gentleman wants
With all the hype surrounded around men, chivalry and what it means for a man to be a gentleman, I think it’s only fair to also explore women and chivalry, and what it means for a woman to be a lady. If a gentleman is expected to open doors, walk on the inside of the [...]
Does Your Story Affect Ability to Attract a Great Guy
Why is it some women seem to have amazing men in their life and others attract cheaters & liars? Why are some women in relationship with loving men and others are complaining there are no good men out there….. does your inner story really matter? Why can some women attract commitment ready men and other [...]
Meeting Organically or Meeting Online
This past Sunday night, while talking on the phone with a matchmaking service, getting ready to enter a speed dating event, I realized I have not met anyone of interest organically. What do I mean by that? What I mean is, I have not met anyone new out in public and approached them with the [...]
Taking things slow, what does that mean?
Taking things slow, what does that mean when a guy says that? Let’s say you are seeing someone you really like (having sex) right after he ended a marriage or relationship. He doesn’t want the pressure of deciding his future and you don’t want to lose him. Just curious, what do you think happens after [...]
Is Being Stubborn Keeping You From the Relationship You Want?
Is Being Stubborn Keeping You From the Relationship You Want? “Well, Jonathon, that was a bold statement, what makes you think I am stubborn?” Well my friend, have you ever heard the definition of insanity? It’s doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. “Jonathon, do you think I am insane?” [...]
Does your Belief System Affect Finding Love?
When your belief system (mindset) is that there are no quality or emotionally available men out there, there aren’t. When your belief is abundant, then there are. When you seek only love you see nothing else. Love is when you find someone who is your best friend and you can be yourself around them. When [...]
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