Are You Playing the Field, or Just Playing Games? Here’s something that comes up a lot in my coaching sessions: Is it okay to date more than one guy at a time? I say it depends on how you define dating, and where you are in the dating cycle. There is a huge difference between [...]
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How Relationship Ready Men Respond to Competition
I’m all for circular dating, or the practice of dating multiple people at a time to avoid too much into something until you know where you stand relationship-wise. But do they all really need to know how many other people you are also dating? I was recently asked by a woman how a man would [...]
Men Don’t Fear Commitment, Men Fear Making the Wrong Choice…
Men don’t really fear commitment as some of us might have you believe. What we men really fear is making the wrong choice… In a few hours, I am going to be interviewed on live television for a Valentine’s Day Special on an ABC Talk-show They say that public speaking ranks as one of the [...]
6 steps for having the relationship talk
You’ve been seeing each other for a few months now, maybe even several months at this point, and things seem to be going well for you. He’s cute, he’s smart, he’s sweet and he’s charming. He makes you laugh, he keeps you on your toes, he turns you on, and you’re both pretty into each other. [...]
How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship?
How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship? It’s the million dollar question if a committed relationship is what you are after. Before I get into the meat of this topic, let’s first take a look at how most dating scenarios work out these days. Say you meet someone from [...]
What Do Men Fear Most
When it comes to understanding men, it might not be a bad idea to put yourself into his shoes. Ask yourself, what do men fear most. Some might say “the unknown,” “losing their money,” “never being in love,” or “not being in control of their lives.” While these might top the list, there are a [...]
When I Meet Her I Will Know
Have you ever heard a man who say: “when I meet her I will know? He might never says this on a date, but he might be one of those romantic types who feels if cupids arrow hits, everything will shift. These guys are often in love with the idea with being in love (women [...]
Romantic Love and Long Term Relationships
Romantic love and Long Term Relationships are like two different train tracks which either merge, end or crash. Romantic Love is often the chemical high when you meet someone for which you have chemistry and LTR is making the choice to build/blend a life with another. Merge, end or crash.. why do you think this [...]
When is Your Last First Kiss?
OMGosh I have a story to tell Please keep this quite or he kill me… shhhhhh Last night while dropping my boys at their moms house (we’re divorced), my 14 yr old had something to tell me. He jumped into the front seat and wanted to share something personal. Turns out he had his first [...]
Meeting Organically or Meeting Online
This past Sunday night, while talking on the phone with a matchmaking service, getting ready to enter a speed dating event, I realized I have not met anyone of interest organically. What do I mean by that? What I mean is, I have not met anyone new out in public and approached them with the [...]
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