When I Meet Her I Will Know

Have you ever heard a man who say: “when I meet her I will know? He might never says this on a date, but he might be one of those romantic types who feels if cupids arrow hits, everything will shift. These guys are often in love with the idea with being in love (women [...]

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Romantic Love and Long Term Relationships

Romantic love and Long Term Relationships are like two different train tracks which either merge, end or crash. Romantic Love is often the chemical high when you meet someone for which you have chemistry and LTR is making the choice to build/blend a life with another. Merge, end or crash.. why do you think this [...]

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Can How Men Play Poker be How They Date Online???

The way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em).  If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates. Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather timidly [...]

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How Is He With My Friends?

So, you’ve been dating someone for a few weeks and now it’s your turn to ask him out. Maybe you’re a veteran dater or maybe you haven’t dated for a while. If you haven’t dated in a while, or have just been through a break up, you may be hesitant as to how to feel, [...]

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The Top 5 Things a Woman Should Never Do When Meeting a Man

If you’re serious about meeting a guy, you’ve probably read a ton of articles already with different points of view on meeting and how to conduct yourself with what may just be Mr. Right. When you’re ready to meet the man of your dreams, it’s important to know the right things to say and do.  [...]

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When is Your Last First Kiss?

OMGosh I have a story to tell Please keep this quite or he kill me… shhhhhh Last night while dropping my boys at their moms house (we’re divorced), my 14 yr old had something to tell me. He jumped into the front seat and wanted to share something personal. Turns out he had his first [...]

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Benefits and Pitfalls: Serial Monogamy vs. Forever After

Before I begin, let’s look at what these mean.  By Serial monogamy I mean being in a committed relationship with obvious sexual exclusiveness.  Serial monogamy lacks the “rootedness” of marriage. It is more characteristic of adults who may have already been married, but not necessarily, already had children if they had wanted to, already did [...]

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Meeting Organically or Meeting Online

This past Sunday night, while talking on the phone with a matchmaking service, getting ready to enter a speed dating event, I realized I have not met anyone of interest organically. What do I mean by that? What I mean is, I have not met anyone new out in public and approached them with the [...]

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Long Distance First Dates (meeting online)

Have you ever connected with someone online that you really liked and thought WOW, this could be the one? Spending hours on the phone, maybe even skype. Email after email, texting all the time talking about planning that first date? Has this ever happened to you? Well I know I have done it and I [...]

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Taking things slow, what does that mean?

Taking things slow, what does that mean when a guy says that? Let’s say you are seeing someone you really like (having sex) right after he ended a marriage or relationship. He doesn’t want the pressure of deciding his future and you don’t want to lose him. Just curious, what do you think happens after [...]

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