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new approach midlife dating

How to Develop a New Approach to Midlife Dating

From what I’ve seen, many newly divorced midlife singles date with an intent to make sure that they don’t repeat the past. Men often retreat into play, fun, no attachment and no desire for long term commitment while women often … Continue reading

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How to Deal With Stalkers

How To Deal With Stalkers As a MidLife dating coach, I’ve been granted some unique experiences as I’ve learned to navigate the dating landscape. Well, let’s just call them perils. But it’s all good because it helps me to help … Continue reading

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What’s the Best Way to Cancel a Date?

What’s the Best Way to Cancel A Date? Text, email or phone…how do you prefer to be let down? Let’s say you connected with a guy via an online dating site. You’ve emailed a few times. You’ve texted a few … Continue reading

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Should Women Consider Asking Men Out?

Should women consider asking men out on dates? According to a new poll by Lavalife, 95 percent of men think it’s attractive and acceptable when a woman asks them out. Clearly, these men are not intimidated by a strong woman; … Continue reading

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How to Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile

How to Make the Most of Your Online Dating Profile Most people would agree that if you were to go out on a job interview, you’d want to put your best foot forward if you wanted to create success. A … Continue reading

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Dating over 45

Over 45 and Never Married…What’s the Deal?

Over 45 and Never Married..What’s the Deal? Let’s face it, there is a strong bias against on both sides of the gender spectrum for those midlife daters who are over 45 but have never been married. A woman may think the … Continue reading

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Making the most of midlife dating

Making the Most of Midlife Dating

Making the Most of Midlife Dating Before I became a Midlife Dating Coach, I use to love the dating process because I used to say “yes” to almost everybody, even when it went against my intuition. Truthfully, I was just … Continue reading

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Dating and Starting A Family During Midlife – Is It Realistic?

Dating and Starting a Family During Midlife – Is It Realistic? As a midlife dating coach, I’m become fascinated with an interesting dynamic that I’d like to discuss. Lately I’ve seen dozens of dating profiles from women who are over … Continue reading

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My children are my priority

“My Children Are My Priority”

My Children Are My Priority Often I see dating profiles that emphasize the busy schedule of parents who have children living at home. As a parent myself, I have great compassion and respect for those who are raising children and … Continue reading

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When he doesn't believe in labels

When He Doesn’t Believe In Labels

When He Doesn’t Believe In Labels You’ve been dating a guy for 2 months, you’re together every weekend for the entire weekend. You’ve become intimate, but haven’t had the exclusivity talk (but it seems he’s only seeing you.) You talk … Continue reading

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