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How To Find Contentment Within Yourself

How to Find Contentment Within Yourself Have you observed people who are genuinely happy and content with themselves, whether they have a partner or not? They’re easy to spot because they are confident in their ability to be an “I.” … Continue reading

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Why Is Finding Love After 40 So Difficult?

Why Is Finding Love After 40 So Difficult? Finding love after 40 is not for the faint of heart. In your 20s, it was easy to meet men at work, clubs or other social events. After 40, the blending of … Continue reading

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Are You an Untamed Woman Who Runs Free?

Are You an Untamed Woman Who Runs Free? For the last blog of the year, I thought I’d let some of my wise and astute readers speak up. I posted this on Facebook recently… Quote from “Sex and the City”: … Continue reading

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Dating in 2014: Selfish is the New Norm. Why?

Dating in 2014: Selfish is the New Norm. Why? As a relationship and dating coach for women, I see the hearts and souls of amazing women every day, and I’m humbled and honored that they chose me to share them … Continue reading

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Let Go of Who You’re Supposed to Be to Discover Who You Are

Let Go of Who You’re Supposed to Be to Discover Who You Are Growing up, I was imprinted with the following by society and my family: go to school, get a job, get married, buy a house, and have kids. … Continue reading

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View Love as an Adventure

View Love as an Adventure Sunday night, I was watching one of my favorite movies, “To Catch a Thief,” with Cary Grant and Grace Kelly (damn she was gorgeous). After only two dates (well they weren’t really dates, more like … Continue reading

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See Beyond Imperfections to the Perfection Within

See Beyond Imperfections to the Perfection Within For years, I’ve watched people date with the expectation that it has to be perfect for love to emerge… and the slightest glitch might send them running away. It’s a sad thing, but … Continue reading

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Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex?

Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex? Each morning, I walk along the beach to connect with nature, to move my body, to ask for what I want and to express gratitude. Every day, I find something or … Continue reading

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A Change of Perspective on LDRs

A Change of Perspective on LDRs For those of you who’ve followed me for a while, you know I’ve pooh-poohed relationships that communicate more by text than over the phone or in person. I always considered them “bubble” relationships and … Continue reading

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Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online

Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online There’s an old saying along the lines of “how you do one thing is how you do everything.” I have found that to be true when it comes to online … Continue reading

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